100 COMMON RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS

  1. What makes you believe that you are ready for a relationship?
  2. What are your biggest fears about relationships?
  3. What is your biggest weakness?
  4. What is your definition of a spouse?
  5. What are your expectations for a relationship?
  6. What things can pull you away from a relationship?
  7. How do you react when you feel hurt?
  8. What habits upset you the most?
  9. What can be done or said to get your attention?
  10. What does your ideal life look like?
  11. Have you ever been in therapy?
  12. What qualities do you bring into a relationship?
  13. What personal improvements do you need to make a relationship work?
  14. What is a relationship deal-breaker for you?
  15. What turns you on, and what turns you off?
  16. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
  17. What’s the most hurtful criticism you have ever received?
  18. Can you overlook anything from your partner’s past life?
  19. What do you love about yourself the most?
  20. What are you not willing to change for a relationship?
  21. What do you think are the benefits of being in a relationship?
  22. Which of your parents had the most significant impact on your life?
  23. What makes you lose confidence?
  24. What gifts do you value the most?
  25. What kind of relationship do you want your spouse to have with your family?
  26. Are there any mental health issues or addiction struggles in your family?
  27. How did religion or spirituality impact your upbringing?
  28. What is the first thing people notice about you besides your appearance?
  29. What habit would you like to change the most?
  30. What would you like to do on a weekend night?
  31. How will you approach disagreements about parenting issues?
  32. How will you know if parenting affects your relationship?
  33. What do you never want your partner to share with friends or family?
  34. Under what circumstances would you recommend counselling or therapy?
  35. What should your partner never say to you, even in anger or frustration?
  36. What is the biggest lesson that your partner can learn from you?
  37. What can you do to avoid constant fighting or arguing?
  38. What personality differences create problems in your relationship?
  39. Where aspect of your life are you unwilling to compromise?
  40. How will you take responsibility for your part in a problem?
  41. Do you find it easy or hard to apologise?
  42. When you get home from work, what would you like your spouse to say or do?
  43. What type of holidays do you enjoy?
  44. What are your deepest emotional and psychological wounds?
  45. Do you have a personal character flaw that you would fix if you could?
  46. What are some annoying habits of other couples that irritate you the most?
  47. If you are experiencing a bad day, would you want to be comforted or left alone?
  48. What type of physical touch makes you feel loved?
  49. How much public affection are you comfortable with?
  50. What can you do to make your sex life better?
  51. How do you define intimacy?
  52. How would you handle a mismatched sex drive between you and your partner
  53. What is your definition of great sex?
  54. How often would you like to have sex?
  55. What is something new that you like to try in bed?
  56. Which of your sexual needs have not yet been satisfied?
  57. What will you do if you feel tempted by another person?
  58. Do you believe in monogamous relationships?
  59. Do you believe one-time adultery should end your relationship?
  60. What would you define as cheating?
  61. How do you feel when other people find your partner attractive?
  62. Do you feel jealous when your partner hangs out with friends of the opposite sex?
  63. Do you think you will stay with this partner for a very long time or forever?
  64. How do you feel if your partner is away for some time because of study or work?
  65. Is it necessary to know everything concerning your partner’s previous relationships?
  66. Have you ever considered the thought of cheating on your partner?
  67. Have you ever thought about ending a relationship?
  68. Does your partner make you forget the painful experience of your past relationships?
  69. Do you think about marrying the person you are in a relationship with?
  70. If you are already married, do you remember why you got married?
  71. How much of your happiness are you ready to compromise for a successful relationship?
  72. How has your parents’ marriage impacted your view on marriage?
  73. Which of your parents has the most significant impact on your life?
  74. What kind of a parent do you think you would be?
  75. Should your marriage take priority over your kids?
  76. How should you respond if extended family members interfere in your relationship?
  77. How important is church going to you?
  78. What personality traits always repels you from a person?
  79. What is the best “Relationship Advice” someone has ever given you?
  80. Do you think a couple’s finances should be together or separate?
  81. How would you describe your spending habits?
  82. Do you like to cook and clean?
  83. When was the last time you expressed your love for each other?
  84. Have you ever changed anything for the sake of your partner?
  85. How much do you believe you understand your partner?
  86. Do you trust each other?
  87. Have you hindered your partner do something because you felt angry or jealous? 
  88. Do you often bring up arguments, and why?
  89. What sacrifices do you make for your relationship?
  90. Have you ever apologised to your partner for something wrong?
  91. Do you easily forgive your partner’s mistakes?
  92. Do you throw your temper easily for the small mistakes of your partners?
  93. How much are you willing to compromise your happiness for a successful relationship?
  94. When it comes to the future, do you and your partner have the same purpose?
  95. Do you say sorry to your partner even though you are not at fault?
  96. When last did you have an in-depth conversation with your partner?
  97. Are you keeping secrets you do not want your partner to know?
  98. Do you think that your partner accepts the way you are?
  99. Have you seen your partner’s worst side?
  100. If you could re-make the choice, would you choose the same person

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